By Hayley DiMarco. At some point in their lives all teens are in conflict with their parents, and how you handle that conflict will make you a stupid parent or a not-so-stupid one. When it comes to teens it's hard to know what to do. It might not seem like it today, but there is a way you both can win. This book will help you reconnect with your kids to show them that you're not so stupid after all. Paper.